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What to do when you struggle with workplace relationships?

To be honest, I get asked this question all the time. And a lot of the people who ask aren’t bad at communication — on the contrary, many are highly capable.

I used to have a colleague who was incredibly skilled technically. He could fix any problem no one else in the company could figure out. But no matter where he went, people didn’t warm up to him. Why? Because his talent was like a sharpened blade — it glinted everywhere he went, and it made people uncomfortable.

In meetings, the second a leader finished sharing an idea, he’d jump in right away: “That’s not right, it should be like this…”

He’d spot flaws in a colleague’s proposal at a glance and point them out in front of the whole department.

When a project succeeded, he was the first to step up and say, “I wrote the core code for this.”

Was he wrong? Technically, no. But in the workplace, being technically right isn’t enough.

Times change, and methods keep getting simpler. The ancients hid this truth long ago in the third line of the Kun Hexagram — **Six in the Third Place of Kun**, summed up in four characters: 含章可贞 (Hán Zhāng Kě Zhēn).

What Does 「含章可贞」 Mean?

The Line Text for Six in the Third Place of Kun reads: “含章可贞，或从王事，无成有终。” (Hán zhāng kě zhēn, huò cóng wáng shì, wú chéng yǒu zhōng.)

Put simply, it means you have substance, talent, and ability inside you, but you don’t show it off. You hold it in, keep it hidden, and walk the right path.

The next part is even more crucial — “或从王事，无成有终” (Huò cóng wáng shì, wú chéng yǒu zhōng). You can follow others to accomplish great things, but don’t抢功劳 (claim credit). When the work is done, it might not be credited to you in name, but more likely than not, you’ll get your share of the final rewards.

The Xiang Commentary puts it even more plainly: “含章可贞，以时发也。或从王事，知光大也。” (Hán zhāng kě zhēn, yǐ shí fā yě. Huò cóng wáng shì, zhī guāng dà yě.)

What does that mean? Hiding your talent isn’t being cowardly — it’s waiting for the right time. When the moment comes and it’s your turn to shine, you’ll naturally be able to step up. Following others on great endeavors without claiming credit is because you have a long-term perspective and a big picture view, and you know what matters more.

A lot of people get anxious when they hear this — so does that mean my work is for nothing? What if someone steals my credit?

Hold on, just hear me out first.

The Most Dangerous Thing in the Workplace Is Having More Ability Than Your Position Warrants

I’ve seen way too many workplace failures happen not because someone lacked ability, but because their ability outstripped their position.

If you’re more skilled than your boss, who do you think he’s going to watch out for? If you take more credit than your leader, do you think he’ll sleep well at night?

The position of Six in the Third Place of Kun is very interesting — it’s the top of the lower trigram, with someone above you. You have ability, but your position isn’t high enough yet. At this stage, the biggest taboo is showing off your edge too sharply.

A while back, a reader told me he’d been at his company for three years, with top performance every year, but he never got promoted. He felt so wronged, thinking his leader was blind.

I asked him: When your department has meetings, who presents the proposals?

He said, “Me, of course — I know the business best.”

I asked again: What about when reporting to higher-ups?

He said, “That’s also me — my leader can’t explain the details clearly.”

I said, “Then what do you let your leader talk about?”

He froze for a second.

You see, that’s the problem. You take all the spotlight, and your leader standing next to you looks like a decoration. Who else is he going to push down? Who else is he not going to promote? Promote someone who’s going to fight him for his own position?

Six in the Third Place of Kun says “无成有终” (wú chéng yǒu zhōng) — the credit goes to the leader, but the position goes to you. If you抢 the credit, you won’t get the position. You’ve got to do the math on this.

Hiding Your Talent Isn’t Being Timid — It’s Advanced Survival Wisdom

A lot of people think “含章” (hán zhāng) just means holding back, enduring, or acting like a doormat.

That’s not right.

What “含章” means is: you have a knife, but you don’t flash it every day to scare people. When you need to use it, you can draw it and use it right away. When you don’t, you keep it sheathed properly.

Why do this? Because sharpness, when used right, is a weapon. When used wrong, it makes you a target.

Let me tell you a true story. A friend of mine works as a product manager at an internet company. There was a new hire on his team who was really smart — he finished everything faster than everyone else. But this new hire had a flaw: he loved showing off. When the leader assigned a task, he’d turn it in the same day, and even finish the next three days’ work on top of it.

Do you think the leader liked him?

At first, sure — he thought he’d found a gem. But as time went on, problems started popping up.

Because he stood out so much, he made everyone else look useless. Senior employees started shutting him out and refusing to cooperate with him. No matter how good his proposals were, the R&D team never prioritized them. In the end, he worked himself to exhaustion, but the project still couldn’t move forward.

Later, he wised up and stopped rushing to take the spotlight. When he had ideas, he’d chat with senior employees privately first, and let them bring it up in meetings. He shared the credit with everyone and took on the hard parts himself. Half a year later, he got promoted instead.

Why? Because the higher up you go, the more you don’t need someone who can do everything alone — you need a group of people willing to work with you. If your edge is too sharp and you drive everyone around you away, no matter how good you are, you won’t go far.

Wen Laoshi often says one thing: When you run into a problem, first ask yourself which line position you’re in.

If you’re in the position of the Third Line (Six in the Third Place), you have to do what the Third Line calls for. You might have the ability of the Fifth Line (Nine in the Fifth Place), but if you don’t have the position of the Fifth Line, you have to hold back first. When you actually reach the Fifth Line and it’s your turn to shine, no one can stop you.

When to “Shine” and When to “Hold Back”

After all this, you might be wondering — so do I just hold back forever? When is it time to step up?

The Kun Hexagram gives the answer, in just two words: 以时 (yǐ shí — according to the timing).

“含章可贞，以时发也。” (Hán zhāng kě zhēn, yǐ shí fā yě.) — Shine when the time is right, hold back when it’s not.

What counts as the right time?

First, you actually have the ability — you didn’t just get lucky.

Second, the people around you already recognize you — it’s not just you thinking you’re good.

Third, there’s an open position above, or someone willing to give you a hand up.

If any of these three conditions is missing, don’t rush to step up. If you’re missing the first, you won’t be able to hold the position even if you get it. If you’re missing the second, no one will respect you once you’re up there. If you’re missing the third, you’ll never get up there at all.

So what should you do when the time isn’t right?

Two things. First, keep honing your skills — don’t let “hiding your talent” turn into “having no talent to hide.” You’ve got to actually have substance inside you, otherwise when it’s time to shine, you won’t have anything to show. Second, build trust and good relationships — make your leader think you’re reliable, and your colleagues think you’re easy to get along with.

Get these two things right, and when opportunity comes, even if you don’t chase it, it will come find you.

One Last Thing

In the workplace, people who run fast often don’t go far.

Look at those who charge full steam ahead right from the start — they seem to be on top of the world for the first couple years, but then they usually fade out. It’s the people who take it steady, moving at a calm and stable pace, who end up pulling ahead as time goes on.

Why? Because the former rely on brute force, while the latter rely on rhythm.

At the end of the day, the line of Six in the Third Place of Kun boils down to one word: 藏 (cáng — hide/hold in). Hiding doesn’t mean you have nothing — it means you don’t show it casually. The more you have, the more you need to know how to hold back. Only when you can hold yourself in can you go far.

Next time you feel like your talent is going unrecognized, don’t rush to complain. Ask yourself first —

Is your talent already out in the open, or is it just not time to show it yet?

Once you figure that out, a lot of your relationship troubles will naturally resolve themselves.